Comments on: Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda…and Life Still Goes On…

By: Saros

Saros — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 00:21:07 +0000

what happened next ? i wanna know more abt you…

By: lorenza madrigal

lorenza madrigal — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 13:39:47 +0000

this is what i feel

By: Charlene

Charlene — Mon, 24 May 2010 14:06:25 +0000

I’ve never felt so upset over a man in my entire life. I met him online. We clicked immediately and I ended up staying at his flat for the next four nights. It was like we’d known each other forever. And I felt really safe with him (i’m 26, he’s 33). We spent all our spare time together. After a couple of weeks he told me that he’d told his mum about me and that he wanted me to meet her sometime. He also said he wanted me to meet his friends. Things were great for the next couple of months. He’d take me out to lovely restaurants, we’d cook together, relax together…
Then out of the blue he stopped texting and calling completely. I left it a week (the longest we’d ever gone without contact) and then texd him asking if we were over, becasue it was so out of the ordinary him not contacting me like this. He texd back and said no we wernt but that he was busy at work. So I expected him to text or call the next day but he didnt. Or the day after. I was in peices by this point and couldn’t figure out what I did wrong. So I texd him and told him I couldnt go on like this anymore. He didnt even reply. So a couple of days later I texd him and told him this silent treatment really wasnt fair. So he texd back saying he didnt mean to ignore me but he’s been busy. And now he has a friend staying over so he can’t talk. Later that day I texd him saying I missed him. He didnt reply. Then I got mad and told him to just tell me now if he wanted me to leave him alone, because I needed to know so that I could forget him and move on. And he couldnt even do that. He didnt even reply. I don’t know where this has come from. I don’t know what I’ve done wrong. I’m shocked to the point of feeling severe pain that he could even treat me like this. No explanation. Nothing. I don’t know what to do. It’s so hard to forget him and move on when I don’t know what’s wrong with him or what went wrong.

I’m … i’m just broken.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 19:05:41 +0000

My problem is that we broke up and we work together. How do you heal when you have to see the person at work everyday? In the break room and hallway everyday?

By: janet

janet — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 08:10:32 +0000

In life we are never sure of what to expect, some day a great love comes to your life the next time, he’s gone. I was involved with someone i thought he felt the same way i did but later learnt that he was just using me. I did all that he asked without expecting anything in return, later i learnt that he had someone else in his life. this really hurts me up to date and cant get myself to forget him. When i had enough of everything i wrote an email telling him off, which he didnt bother to respond, but later i felt guilty of my action and wrote an apology to the guy which he also didnt respond. am so confused right now i feel like my world is crumpling down. How do i get over this and trust men again???

By: usedlove

usedlove — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 02:51:58 +0000

I enjoyed your story, it helped me. I am in love with someone that I thought cared about me but it turns out that he didnt. He was just using me. He left out of the country to work for a year and we saw each other before he left, we had a nice dinner but he never said goodbye. I told him how I felt and he just completely got cold with me. I have tried several times to talk to him and he has ignored all of my emails. It breaks my heart that he is doing that but I guess I was not the friend I thought he I was. He doesn’t want to be my friend, he just wants to forget I was ever part of his life. I try really hard not to cry but its so hard sometimes that I do so I can feel better. Although he treated me this way, i have no hard feelings for him and will always care for him even if we never see each other again. Life goes on and I hope to be able to feel happy again like I did when I was with him with someone else.

By: sreeja

sreeja — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 18:14:52 +0000

thank you for this story, i really lost the love of my life to jealousy, mistrust and running away of how i truly felt. It is really hard when you could of had something and now it’s gone forever. You really wished for someday you had a second chance…you really wish you could turn back time, you hope someday things would change, however you are right, time heals and we move on, i wish to move on, because he did and he only wants me to find someone that will make me happy it is so hard right now. thank you for this story…i read it everyday to remind myself that i can move on.

By: Ashi

Ashi — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 13:24:32 +0000

Yes time is a great healer……………… But it depends how much TIME does time take to make you forget things……….. and let you move on!! Sometimes it just eats off all the beautiful years of your life making it the ugliest ones.

By: marlene

marlene — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 04:31:49 +0000

i just did leave a comment

By: marlene

marlene — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 04:30:58 +0000

to me its a hardest battle inmy life after25 years ofmarriage andmy husband leaving me for a youger woman its hurts you feel betray abuse and used and now what how can i be friend i feel i dont want to everseehimagian andmovefrommy beatiful home to a mobile home where I can mingle with other people god bless for your story