I've been following your story on here and it makes me want to rage. You need to dump this chick. Yesterday. Get her out of your life. It's going to be hard, really hard. You're going to remember all the things you love about her and forget about all the things she did to hurt you.. but you have to keep reminding yourself of why you need to get this chick out of your life.
She will never stop doing these things to you. She will never stop cheating on you. You're giving her your all and she's just using you for what she needs. Tell her to go get with that guy at the concert and that you don't care. It's going to drive her insane. Tell her you don't care anymore. She'll want you more.
But resist my friend.
The more you pull away, the more she'll want you. She'll make promises about how she's going to change, how she needs you, how she wants to be with you.. but the results will be the same as they just were. She'll be good for a few weeks and then go back to hurting you.
You don't need that in your life. You are better than that.
If you were looking at yourself and you situation from the outside in, what would you tell yourself to do? If this was a friend, what would you tell him about what you thought about this girl? Write yourself a letter like you're talking to a friend and explaining to him why this relationship is just bad news and that she's not worth it.
Call back that girl you were dating when she got all pissed about it. Dump this girl, forever. The pain and memories will fade.
I was dumped by my girlfriend of a year and a half about a month and a half ago. Through-out that break up, I was a total mess: No sleep, no food, no motivation, stress, the sick usuals of a broken heart. She made it a point to make my life a living hell, parading the boys she was sleeping with, knowing full well it would hurt me so much. At one point, she had called me at work to pry about a girl I was dating. When I wouldn't give her details, she revealed details about a night she had with a musician I was trying to produce.
However, during that break up, she constantly messaged me on facebook. She had slept with me as well, then cry afterwards but wouldn't tell me why. About…3 weeks ago, after hearing nothing from her for 5 days, I recieved a late night message from her. She was drunk and high, telling me that she just keeps breaking down. That she knew she shouldn't be talking to me..but she can't help it. I got worried, she didn't know what she was on. So at 3 in the morning, I raced over to her house to make sure she wasn't going to OD or anything. I get there, she starts crying. Claiming she's been nothing but drunk and high for the past week (same for me) to forget about me (same reason too). That she regrets leaving me, that she's missed me so much. So we slept together…where she cried again afterwards, telling me that she just missed me so much.
So..for the past 3 weeks, we've been dating. She tells me she's inlove with me again, that I mean so much to her and that she doesn't want to mess this up again. She wants me to move in with her real bad, and I told her I wouldn't do it unless we got back together. She got mad when I suggested that, saying it's a stupid idea. Her reason for not wanting to be back together is that she's unstable right now and that it'd fuck up everything. Now, I don't know if that's code for “i'm just waiting for something better to come along, if it doesn't..then I'll settle for you.” I'm scared I'm being paranoid. Whenever we're out in public, she'll act like we're friends…but when we're alone, she'll act affectionate.
A few days ago, she told me she found herself attracted to a guy she met at a concert and she doesn't know if she'll act on it. That hurt me, so much. How can she say she loves me when she can't even guarantee me she won't hurt me? So I don't know what to think. She's been really distant for the past 2 days, and I can't help but feel like I've been here before. I'm just so confused over her intentions
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