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im new to this, so il begin at the start

i was along with my girlfriend for just over a year, i know it may sound short, but we had known each other for a long time before that. we started dating when i told her how i felt about her, she told me she felt the same way but was afraid to tell me, the next 6 months were perfect, we spent every waking moment together when we were not at work, even at work as we worked together. she got a job in florida, and even then we spent hours every day on the phone. then around 6 months after she got there she decided to tel me that she wasnt ready for everything, that she didnt want to regret what we had. but the thing that has kept us close is that she asked me to wait for her, as she know already she wants to spend her life with me.

since then she tells me nearly every day that she loves me, she wants us to get back together when she comes home in 12 weeks time. she even tells me that she wants to move in with me when she gets back, she wants to get engaged not long after she gets back. she has me convinced that we are supposed to be together. everything that is giving me hope she tells me.

recently i confronted her about being with other men since we broke up, she has always strongly denied that she has, but this time she has told me she has been a number of different men sexually. she made me promise to not be with another woman, and i have kept this promise. honestly i just dont see myself being with anyone else, i feel i would hurt her too much if i was. along with that i dont want anyone else.

recently one of my friends said to me that ” she doesnt want to be with you, and she doesnt want you to be anyone else”. i would just like to hear anything that anyone from a neutral side thinks of my situation. do you think that she is worth waiting for? any advice would be really appreciated.

nearly forgot to say that im flying over to see her in 2 weeks time for 2 weeks, it cost me £1500 just for the flights and hotel. do you think i should go and see her, or just cut my loses now before i get hurt again?

thanks