Comments on: Change Has Come a Knockin’ – Let Her In and Embrace Her

By: JJ

JJ — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 16:25:19 +0000

Yes, this article really resonates with me. There were so many red flags in my relationship that I ignored until the whole thing blew up. I guess those red flags were my nudges.

By: Laur

Laur — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 17:30:48 +0000

I thought I was the only one who had the tap, the nudge, and finally the kick. How funny it is that people from all corners of the Earth feel this at one point or another – it really makes me think AND believe that we really are all destined and fated to do certain things and when we go “off path” the universe has no choice but to direct us back. However, I do believe that these hints (usually felt in the gut – for me at least!) are for our own good and that the relationship we were in that caused the eventual red flags to pop was also a fated relationship. At least in my case it was. Do you ever feel like somethings really are pre-determined for whatever reason? In my last relationship I believe I was being tested. I was gived the nudge the tap the kick in the stomach several times but I never listened. I believe I was meant to learn something a year into the relationship or less not 3 years. Either way I was scared to end it because I was truly blinded by love but it did end and I WISH I had listened to my spiritual guides who I truly believe were trying to talk to me.

By: Lily

Lily — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 06:55:40 +0000

Yes, change is so difficult to accept – but we have to for our own benefit. There are reasons why things happened. We just have to wait for the right time to know the reason. Time heals.

By: Denise

Denise — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 04:37:06 +0000

Thanks guys…I am starting to feel a bit better already!….it’s sooo hard…i just want all to work out for the best for me and our daughter….her dad did me wrong (i did some wrong too)…but i cant wait for the day that i will be thanking him for “delivering” me!…The worst feeling is not knowing why you were dumped!…but i’ll be ok some sweet day! Asking the Lord to give me the serenity to accept the things, that I cannot change!

By: Tom

Tom — Sun, 13 Jun 2010 02:28:40 +0000

I think that’s it. Change is the hardest thing to come over. In love, think you’re gonna be with this person forever, and then like you say, come and get a kick in the gut. It’s all true, so many warnings, yet i was so madly in love i ignore them all and payed the price. Luckily for me now, in the last few days i’ve started to cheer up. Looking forward to starting college in september, and all the new girls. Still hurts, still think about this girl everyday, still love her i suppose, but i’ve finally realised it’s time to move on. fuck love. anyone reading this, dont fall in love too young!! that’s the main lesson i’ve learned. Fell in love with someone who liked me alot, just didn’t love me. Enjoy your life while you’re still young, instead of chasing that one person, cause 9 times out of 10, they won’t be worth it, as i found out the hard way.
Final thing, us with a broken heart, it’ll make us stronger, so it’s sorta like a blessing in disguise. we’ll be the ones laughing soon enough, when the tables turn and the ones we were in love with start to feel bad and realise what they’re missing. That’s the stage i think i’m reaching now, so don’t give up. heartbreak absolutely tears you up, but it will get better. trust, it won’t help me saying it, but it does. i know it never seems like it will get better, cause you cant see yourself getting over this person, but i was the same, didn’t believe anyone. 2 months down the line i’m here and starting to heal for good. believe it, you’l heal in time and start looking forward to the future again. everyone’s life is like a plan as they say, enjoy it. ‘no-one is worth your tears, and the person who is wont make you cry!’ yooooooo essay!

By: Travis

Travis — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 19:13:27 +0000

the thought of the changes to come are what haunt me. i’ve been avoiding them, but i am going to try to face them…i know i’m only delaying the process.